So let`s see some new information on human body language explained.
You could think you was just standing.
You may not have meant it but here’s what “message you sent” while you were “just standing.”
You had your arms extended down in front or behind you and you had your hands clasped together, creating a “V” shape. You were seen as open and innocent in the conversation you were having and viewed as involved by the person watching you from afar.
Of course you didn’t *intend* for this message to be sent…but that’s what it was perceived as in the other person’s mind….and that’s why it’s so important to think about what message you really want to send by human body language.
You raised your hand to grasp your forearm, just a few inches from your hand, changing the “V” to a short “9″, and now you are seen as less interested by the person you are talking to and more available by the guy watching you from the other side of the office or hallway.
You stood there and fiddled with your hands, scratched your forehead, itched your nose or perhaps touched your ear. The person you were talking with saw you as anxious or nervous and probably dishonest….whether you were or not. And the guy in the restaurant who has been paying attention to you believes you want to get away from the person you’re talking with, male or female.
Now wait for mty next post about human body language explained.
